Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Growing Life/Growing Up




 Ever since I found out I was having a daughter my life flipped upside down. It definitely showed me who is a true friend and true family. The type of person I have grown to be is an intelligent woman with lots of stubbornness. Even now two of my closest friends want to throw me a baby shower and refusal spews from me.

As the weeks grow closer and my “Dominirican Princess” as my friends like to joke is going to her make her grand arrival. It makes me realize that there are so many lessons as a female to teach her. Growing up with just a Father made me lack well female tendencies.

Tomboy Fashion
Lack of Knowledge of Makeup
How to be Ladylike was not a forte

My life was hanging with my abundance of guy friends, playing softball and being oddly weird till recently. The shift of trust from others, the interesting but laughable lies spread about me and overall lack of support showed me I need to be …

Stronger!

I want my Daughter to grow up with so much support and love that she will one day rule the world. That being a opinionated female is perfect and that no one should make her feel less of herself. That she will not always be liked and not to dwell on that. Her body is hers and when comes to her body it should ALWAYS be her choice.

Whoever she loves I will love man, woman or even no one. No one can stop her dreams and the possibilities are endless. She can speak freely to me about everything and anything. That even though family is blood related does not make them family. Blood doesn’t make family love and support do.

That God Loves her
That her Father Loves her
And most Importantly

I love Her <3
 

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